part 2
So after obtaining diplomas in anatomy & physiology; body massage (Swedish); aromatherapy & reflexology, I steadily built up my clients in England. putting things on temporary hold whilst I became a full time mum of my two children; Jack and Isabella and assisting my husband with his book keeping (not sure if I should have been let loose with this role as I was in constant fear of doing something incorrect!).
Throughout this time, I am grateful to my children as I learned so much and grew a lot. Having them, taught me so much about life and myself as I discovered more about unconditional love, earning respect, nutrition, allergies, behaviour, positive parenting skills, and so much more.
I loved and still love, being a mother, but the road has been far from easy. We put our big smile on and tell the world everything is ok … but inside we are crying.
I was diagnosed with postnatal depression after having my children; but the realisation was that I had always struggled with mental illness having an unhappy childhood. That was another huge learning for me, and one that I am proud to say I acknowledged (after a long time in denial) and dealt with from a ground level (not just masking it with medication).
It has moulded me into the person I am today, and have a deeper understanding about dealing with mental illness which is sadly huge in today's society. Now recognised and talked about, is a great step forward towards our healing, coping and acceptance.
As a firm believer that good things always come from bad, I knew this was all for a reason, and it made me even stronger, plus teaching me more skills and passing on my experiences to others going through similar/the same.
I joined a positive parenting course, which enabled me to become a better mother and teach parents the tools to cope with being a parent and give them confidence to ask for help as and when needed. This course was a life saver for me and my family, and something I am continuing on to this day not only for myself, but for my friends and clients.
I still have to do things to support me, such as regular exercise, treatments, and my own learnt therapies including tapping and meditation. Life is for living, and every day gives us challenges.
I encourage everyone I meet to do the same, not only for yourselves but as role models to our children.
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